- assertiveness
- ambition
- self-belief
Or maybe like this:
- generosity
- fairness
- enthusiasm
Now take another piece of paper and write down your partner's signature strengths. Start thinking about which situations and challenges in your relationship have been overcome as the result of your strengths. Now do the same when thinking about your partner's strengths. Which of their strengths have fortified you and vice versa?
Celebrate the positive aspects of your partner's character. Celebrate the positive aspects of yours. Consider any strengths which may be lacking in either of you and how to find constructive, loving ways to work on them.